Be Quick to Listen and Slow to Speak
Some of the best leaders I know don’t show up with answers.
They show up with curiosity.
I’m often tempted to jump straight to solutions:
• Fix the numbers.
• Solve the problem.
• Give the advice.
But real leadership usually starts with better listening — not better talking.
When we slow down and truly listen, we:
• Ask better questions.
• Gain deeper context.
• Help people feel heard, not handled.
• Stay curious instead of defensive.
Whether it’s a client sharing financial stress…
or a team member working through a challenge…
Listening first almost always reveals the real issue — not just the one on the surface.
-Rusty Fulling